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Entries by Haris Abdul Rahman (3438)

8:41PM

Northbound

I am Northbound today. My cousin is getting married tomorrow. Well he is married today. His akad nikah is today, and the wedding kenduri on the wife side. Tomorrow will be on his side. I drove with my parents. My kids are just too tired to make the journey as we will be heading back tomorrow.

Malay wedding can be rather tedious. There are minimum 3 ceremonies. The akad nokah, when the groom says I do. Then the wedding ceremony on the wife side followed later, usually on a separate day on the husband side. To safe cost, we tend to have the akad nikah and brides' wedding on the same day. For me, we held a reception as well at a hotel, inviting friends and extended family. The akad nikah tends to be for the immediate family and the ceremony temded to be more intimate.

We plan to travel home tomorrow after the wedding as Monday will be the MMed exams.

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7:46PM

What to buy for Mother's Day?


The Curve, originally uploaded by Haris Abdul Rahman.

It's the time of the year again when both my wife and my Mum were dropping me hints. My Mum usually expected me and my sister to take her out for dinner, with all her grandchildren around. Last year we went to a restaurant in Wangsa Maju. The food did not turn out as nice as we expected despite the ambiance and the price.

Anita dropped me a few hints yesterday, so I know I had to be on a mission. Unfortunately I will have to travel to Penang rather than spend the day with her and my kids as one of my cousin is getting married. I would be driving my parents there, so it is very likely we will have the meal there. Next week also will be the MMed exam week, so I will be back at work. It will be followed by the SIRIM Audit in UMMC from the 18th, so I can't take leave that few days either.

On a different note, was quite glad that United will be facing Barca instead of Chelsea. Really enjoyed the look on John Terry's face at the death. I was worried that it will be our turn to lose the penalty shoot-out in Rome. At least with Barcelona we will expect an open high tempo game. We will wait and see.

Lunch at Marche, The Curve

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4:21PM

Another upload but from a different computer - please indulge me


Sunset Dip, originally uploaded by Haris Abdul Rahman.

This picture was taken on Labour Day near our apartment @ Bayu Beach Resort. Port Dickson. Check out the golden hour sun, it was simply juicy.

This was taken after a good hour spent on the beach and water. Unfortunately the the tide was low and caused the sand to be rather muddy. Weather was gorgeous though. If features my two boys Idlan and Irfan getting rather cold. You can click on the link to see the rest of my flickr post!

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3:57PM

090504 Makan


090504 Makan, originally uploaded by Haris Abdul Rahman.

This is essentially a trial post from my flickr account. See if it's neat!

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6:12PM

Can A Government Doctor Rant?

I was taken aback by this article written by Azman Anuar, a writer in Utusan Malaysia - Doktor cuma 'berdiam' bila rakyat kritik khidmat mereka. It was published last weekend and it resolves around the recent 'revelation' by a Deputy Minister who 'caught' a couple of off-duty Houseman in Hospital Kuala Lumpur actually ...... being off-duty, apparently that is not allowed, darn!

Anyhow, the article struck a chord since there were no official backing by the MMA concerning the incident that clearly could have brought the profession into disrepute. Kudos to the Health Minister though for uncharacteristically sticking his neck out and rebut the accusation head on.

My second observation is the amount of public sympathy around the incident, although again they are in trickles. I came across a couple of patients today that had plenty of nice things to say about Government Doctors, but unfortunately they are common people whose voice were rarely heard in the media.

I think on the whole, the public still respect us. Unfortunately in our busy live, we often forget common courtesy. We take the traffic police for granted although they were trying their hardest. How often do we give the government clerk behind the counter abuse, not to mention tips about how to work more efficient - well all of us have our opinion and these government servant are easily seen as easy target.

I have learned from early on that making a fuss against patient won't let us anywhere. People in authority are more likely tell us off if a complaint comes rather than reward us for a job well done. We government servants are always on the defensive. There are plenty of press about policeman taking grafts. I am sure there are ten times the number of those refusing bribes - but because the story was never told, nobody had the sense to find it out. Even if so, the story won't be sensational enough the become believable.

I have been shouted and abused upon by my patients or their relatives before, to the extend that even my nurses wonder if I have understood what the patient were doing to me. Most of the time it was more of the spur of the moment. When the red mist settles, they will often come and ask for apology. This is the time when I strike back and reminded them that all the staffs here have feelings and I will be very blunt with them - I may forgive but rarely forgets. The patient then tend to be doubly nice to us afterwards, maybe it is my warped sense of defense or just my nature of passive aggressiveness. 

If our salary goes by the number of times we were abused, I am sure I am a rich man by now ....