Wedding at Nilai

The first order of the day was to Nilai. My cousin, Shari, finally got hitched and we attended the reception there. We left as scheduled, at around 10.30 after my morning rounds, and reached the venue about an hour earlier, relatively early. After mingling around, and enjoying a splendid lunch - the food was actually very good - the happy couple arrived, in white. Quite rare these days to have Malay wedding with a white theme. But white it was.

Most of the family members from Penang made their way down here. My Dad was due to sit on the high table, but when the couple arrived, all hell broke lose, and Dad ended up having dinner at hour table instead. An hour after we finished eating. To accompany him, I went for seconds .....

After we were done with the food and met all the extended family members, it was time to go. As I mentioned, we would be spending the night at A Famosa, before driving further down to Muar tomorrow.

Afternoon Wedding

It was a pleasant wedding I attended yesterday lunchtime. It was also the first time that I attended the venue, at Taman Melawati.

The bride is our next door neighbour in Gombak, and Anita knew her since they were in school. She was married before, and her only daughter was born within a couple of weeks of Idlan. Unfortunately, a few months after that, she was separated, and a messy divorce ensued. It was only finalised recently, paving the way for the wedding.

The wedding itself was a very cosy affair, with the family members organising almost everything, except the cooking I supposed. The bride's brother was the emcee, and he certainly stole the show. Everything was straight forward, and was done on time.

The bride was certainly happy yesterday, and so were we, knowing what she had gone through. So, many congratulations to our dear neighbour. To the bride .....

Grumpy Boys

We brought the two boys along for the wedding reception in town. This was initially planned for yesterday evening, but was delayed until this lunchtime due to the road closures. The venue, Dewan Tun Rahah, at Menara Tun Razak off Jalan Bukit Bintang. That was the first time I had been to the hall, a not particularly big one, but nice and intimate.

There were plenty of Consultants from UM present just then, took me a good 20 minutes to go and talk to most of them. Some of them happened to be my patients believe it or not. I was really glad that the hall was full, as the fear was, should the situation yesterday was worst than it was, nobody would want to travel into town. Another worry was the weather, as it started to rain heavily when we arrived.

Unfortunately my boys were really grumpy at the hall, Irfan especially as he was still carrying a sniffle. He did not want to come along initially but since there were nobody left at home to look after him, we had to drag him along, minus his iPad. He was a right strop. I was not able to enjoy much of the food and to calm him down I had to carry him out.

The nice pelamin that they hadSpeech from the hostOne thing about a lunch rather than dinner wedding was how fast the ceremony seemed to go. By the time everything was done as dusted, it was only 2.30pm. If it was dinner, I can imagine it dragging in for a couple more hours. The food was good, catered from Seri Malaysia. The boys has some rice, then went straight for the dessert, some chocolate cakes. Sufficed to say, I was not able to get many snaps.

Intan's Akad

We were apprehensive and were prepared to turn back on the way over yesterday. We were debating the route. Would we take the DUKE? How about MRR2 then LDP? Definitely center of town was a definite no no. Federal Highway might have been risky. So we journeyed from Gombak to Kelana Jaya via Kepong, then Bandar Utama. Traffic was smooth. We reached our destination in under half an hour.

Yesterday was the akad ceremony for my cousin's daughter. It has been planned since the beginning of the year, and the Bersih rally nearly derailed the plan. The initial plan was also to hold the reception on the evening - last night - but since the venue was smack in the middle of town, it was elated to this afternoon. At least the delay was not that bad since some of the family members traveling from far - the groom side was from Kedah - did not have to arrange for an extra day stay. Most of them were planning to return today anyhow, and a delay of a few hours were more better than having to plan to come back on another day.

The waitAn it was officialThe akad went ahead. The only disruption was the caterer getting stuck in a roadblock off Subang and food only arrived after 11 am. The groom party turned up on time, and so was the Ustaz, a young gentleman in his early 30s who was clearly very good, giving nice straight advice to the happy couple, while administering such a smooth ceremony. After the merenjis ceremony - the happy couple being doused with flowers and perfumed water - we settled for lunch.

The happy coupleThe father of the brideMy Dad-in-lawThe customary row of photographersThe return journey was also smooth, and we reached home just before 1pm. Anita did not attend as her mother was having stomach cramps since the evening before. So, we were all looking forward instead for this afternoon reception. The slideshow for the event was ported here.

Update on Monday, July 11, 2011 at 10:55PM by Haris Abdul Rahman

The photo from the slideshow can be downloaded by clicking on the actualy photo when displayed. Follow the onscreen instruction from then on.

Time Will Tell

There was a famous saying that only the victor will be remembered as they were the ones writing the history. One day we would look back to 9th July to learn if it was a wise decision to overreact and lock down the capital city, or was it a necessary action. Certainly the rally has disrupted my plans for the weekends. However, to claim that it would be a loss to me would be selfish. The rally that day might shape the future of the country, and for that, I would rather sacrifice the cancelled meeting and wedding reception.

My wife's cousin, who also happened used to be the Dean of the UM Medical School until recently, was planning the akad and reception for her daughter on the very same day - 9th July. The akad would be in the morning, a private ceremony at his house, while the reception would be smack in the middle of town. That was postponed to Sunday, when hopefully, all the excitement of the rally would have died down. On the Sunday as well, there was a planned symposium at one of the hotel in town, during which I was scheduled to give a brief talk. That was put back to later in the month as well.

In its own way, the Bersih rally has affected my plan for the weekend, and I would be keeping a close look at the twittefeed to catch up on the eye-witness account of the event as they took place. Hopefully, I would be able to as plenty of us were expecting a media black-out. And that would include disruption of the Internet service and possibly the cellular network. If that was the case - the Internet being cut - then it would be safe to assume that something ugly might have happened. And nobody would want that. Here is hoping that no blood would be shed in what was hoped to be a peaceful rally at the start.