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9:19PM

A Day That Sorted Itself Out

Please click the photo above to play the daily videoThe morning arrived with its collar already up — an unwell patient needing proper attention early on, the sort of thing that reorganises the whole shape of a day before it's had a chance to settle into one. No time for the usual gentle unfolding; straight into it, full focus, everything else quietly rescheduled to make room. It's a particular kind of pressure, that — not loud, exactly, just insistent, the sort that narrows the world down to one thing until that one thing is properly seen to.

Credit where due, though: it was sorted by lunch. There's a genuine relief in a problem that resolves within its own morning rather than dragging its heels into the afternoon and beyond — the sort of small professional victory that doesn't get celebrated with anything more than a quiet exhale, but earns one all the same.

Lunch itself turned out to be work-adjacent rather than restful — another sit-down with pharma, this time to talk through a project on the horizon, early enough in its life that most of the conversation was still shape rather than substance. Useful, if not exactly leisurely; the kind of meal where the fork does less work than the notepad. Still, better a productive lunch than a wasted one, and there's something to be said for getting ahead of a project before it's properly arrived.

More work followed, because mornings like that one have a way of running the bill up for the rest of the day — nothing dramatic, just the steady business of catching up on everything the earlier crisis had, quite reasonably, pushed to one side. The kind of afternoon that isn't hard so much as cumulative, each small thing adding its own modest weight to a day that had already done more than its fair share by noon.

And then, threaded through all of it, a bit of concern closer to home — Anita's not been herself the last few days, under the weather in that low, dragging way that doesn't announce itself dramatically but doesn't quite lift either. A course of antibiotics got sorted for her, which felt like the one unambiguous bit of good in an otherwise mixed day — something concrete done, rather than just noticed and worried about.

By evening, there wasn't much appetite left for anything but stillness. A quiet night in, no plans beyond the sofa and each other's company, the sort of low-key evening that doesn't try to compensate for the day so much as simply let it end. Some days need noise to close them out properly; this one clearly wanted none of it, and got its wish.

A day, then, that started with a genuine scare and ended in something closer to calm — sorted problems, useful conversations, and a bit of care handed round at home where it was needed. Not the easiest shape for a day to take, but not the worst either, once it's all been put away and the lights are off.

9:17PM

A Tuesday That Kept Its Own Time

Please click the photo above to play the daily videoThe football withdrawal is real, and mildly ridiculous to admit to. One evening without a match and you'd think I'd have adjusted; instead I spent the early hours doing the thing where you refresh nothing in particular, just out of habit, like patting a pocket for a phone that's sitting right there in your hand.

The phone itself had other plans anyway. An overnight emergency doesn't announce itself politely — it just arrives, mid-sleep, insistent, and you're up and moving before your brain has properly agreed to the arrangement. There's a particular kind of alertness that comes from being summoned in rather than easing in, a wide-awake-too-quickly feeling that no amount of coffee later in the day fully corrects. I got in early, dealt with what needed dealing with, and by the time the sun had properly committed to being up, I'd already done a day's worth of thinking before most people had done their first.

Traffic, naturally, chose this exact morning to be uncooperative. The light at the junction near mine seems to operate on its own private philosophy, one that has little regard for anyone trying to get somewhere with any urgency. I sat through it twice, which felt almost personal.

Once in, there wasn't much room for recovery — things needed sorting before the morning clinic could properly start, the kind of behind-the-scenes tidying nobody sees but which determines whether the rest of the day runs smoothly or limps along apologising for itself. Thankfully it ran smoothly. Or smoothly enough, which in this line of work is usually the more honest claim.

Lunch was Jyu Raku, which felt like exactly the right kind of pause — quiet, unfussy, the sort of meal that doesn't ask anything of you beyond eating it. Certain places earn their keep simply by being reliably good without ever making a fuss about it, and today I was grateful for exactly that kind of unfussiness.

The afternoon brought more referrals, which after the morning's early start had a slightly uphill quality to them, though nothing that couldn't be managed with the appropriate amount of tea and patience. Some days are front-loaded like that — all the drama spent before nine, the rest simply mopping up.

Small mercy: I made it home before sundown, which after a day that started somewhere in the dark felt like a modest but genuine victory. There's something quietly satisfying about arriving while there's still light in the sky, as though the day hadn't entirely got the better of you.

I allowed myself a proper sit-down in front of the television, no particular agenda, just the simple relief of a chair that wasn't a car seat or a clinic stool. No football, still — the withdrawal persists — but the stillness did its job well enough. Some days don't need dramatic endings. They just need a chair, and permission to stop.

10:19PM

Wagyu, Wagon, and Watching the Semis Take Shape

Please click the photo above to play the daily videoEngland versus Norway called for an early start, and it delivered — a proper quarter-final, the kind that refuses to resolve itself tidily and drags you through extra time before letting anyone breathe out. Bellingham was, once again, the man of the moment, a brace that carried England through to a 2-1 win, the second goal arriving deep into extra time when the whole thing looked like it might crawl towards penalties. Haaland, by contrast, had one of those days that happens to even the best of them — quiet, contained, never quite finding the space he's spent the tournament living in. England through to the semis. Norway home with their heads held reasonably high, having gone rather further than anyone expected of them this time last month.

Ward round followed straight after, conducted with one eye on proceedings elsewhere, as Argentina and Switzerland were doing their own version of the same drama in Kansas City. Extra time again, a Julián Álvarez strike from distance eventually settling it, Argentina through 3-1 and now lined up against England in the semis — which means Wednesday just became rather significant viewing.

Lunch was the day's proper centrepiece: Bendang KL, a first visit, tucked into Kampung Baru in a way that made the whole outing feel slightly like a discovery. We'd booked ahead and arrived early, which turned out to be the right instinct entirely — by the time we left, the place had filled up considerably, queues forming at the door for a table we'd had the good sense to claim in advance. Mak joined us, the lunch doubling as a proper extension of the birthday celebrations, and the food more than justified the trip — good service too, attentive without hovering, the sort of lunch that makes you wonder why you hadn't been before.

From there, a change of pace entirely: Mid Valley, and the ongoing saga of Irfan's phone situation, which finally resolved itself with his old SIM card reactivated and back in service. Not the most glamorous stretch of the day, but satisfying in its own small, administrative way — one of those loose threads finally tied off.

Dinner at home rounded things out gently: a beef carpaccio salad, light and unfussy, exactly the sort of thing an evening asks for after a day that had already delivered its fair share of drama, both culinary and footballing. Two extra-time quarter-finals, a new restaurant discovery, a resolved SIM card, and a semi-final now looming on the horizon — not a bad haul for a Saturday, all told.

10:00PM

Desk, Wagyu, and a Small Victory of Timing

Please click the photo above to play the daily videoThe morning began the way most working mornings do — early, purposeful, ward round first before the rest of the world had properly stirred. This one came with a slightly unusual travelling companion: Irfan's Jellycat, smuggled along to the clinic for no better reason than birthday afterglow, sitting somewhere near my desk like a small soft-furred colleague who contributes nothing but morale. It did its job admirably.

The rest of the working day settled into its familiar shape — behind the desk, steady and unremarkable, the sort of stretch that doesn't ask to be remembered so much as simply got through. Straight through to the afternoon, no great drama, just the quiet accumulation of tasks ticked off one after another.

Lunch, though, was the day properly announcing itself. Kyomo, and wagyu yakiniku that did exactly what good yakiniku ought to — arriving in modest portions and somehow still managing to feel generous, each piece better than the last. Irfan went the sensible route with a kale salad, presumably atoning in advance for whatever excess the rest of us were about to commit. The kimchi tray deserves its own mention, genuinely excellent, sharp and well-balanced in a way that elevated everything around it rather than simply sitting there as garnish. A properly good lunch, the sort that leaves you slightly regretful about the afternoon's remaining commitments, except today there weren't many, which made the whole thing feel entirely without consequence.

From there, a change of register entirely — the pasar malam, all noise and steam and the particular chaos that only a good night market can produce. Otak-otak first, that smoky, wrapped little parcel of a thing that never quite photographs as well as it tastes, followed by nasi lemak, because no proper night market visit really concludes without it. Street food after fine dining is an odd sort of whiplash, but a welcome one — the day covering an impressive amount of culinary ground without ever feeling indulgent for its own sake.

Altogether, a genuinely good day, the sort that doesn't announce itself as special in advance but adds up nicely in the retelling. Wagyu at lunch, otak-otak by evening, a plush bystander watching over the desk in between — not a bad spread for a Wednesday, or whichever day this technically was.

Early to bed regardless, with England kicking off the next morning and no intention of missing it groggy. Some things are worth protecting a night's sleep for, and a quarter-final is squarely one of them.

9:06PM

A Justified Kind of Tired

Please click the photo above to play the daily videoThere's tired, and then there's the specific, self-inflicted tired that comes from staying up for a football match that actually delivers. England's win last night falls firmly into the latter category — the sort of fatigue you carry around today almost proudly, like a badge you'd earn again given the choice. Worth it, in other words. The bill has simply come due rather sooner than one would like, payable in heavy eyelids and a general sense of moving through syrup.

Knowing the day would need a bit of managing, I skipped the drive in altogether. A physio appointment sat in the afternoon calendar, which meant navigating across town at some point regardless, so I called a Grab instead and let someone else absorb the burden of Kuala Lumpur traffic. A decision that looked cleverer by the minute — the roads were jammed solid in that particular mid-week way that makes you wonder whether everyone in the Klang Valley had the same idea to go somewhere at once. Watching it all crawl past from the back seat, phone in hand, felt very much like the correct choice rather than the lazy one, whatever the difference actually is.

Lunch was dim sum, which is one of those meals that asks very little of you beyond turning up with an appetite and letting the trolleys do the rest. Small plates, steady grazing, no great decisions required — precisely the register a sleep-deprived body wants from a midday meal. There's a gentle sociability to it too, everyone reaching and sharing and topping up the tea, that suits a slower kind of day rather well.

From there it was off to Kota Damansara for the physio session, and the place turned out to be doing a roaring trade — packed to the point where finding anywhere to park became its own small expedition. A minor comedy of circling the block, weighing up increasingly dubious spots, before eventually accepting defeat and improvising. Small mercies that I wasn't driving my own car through that particular scrum; Grab earned its keep twice over today.

The appointment itself did what these things do — a bit of prodding, a bit of stretching, the usual professional interrogation of which bits complain and which stay quiet. Nothing dramatic, just the ongoing maintenance work that a body accumulates a need for over time, rather like a house that needs the odd wall re-plastered.

With the day's obligations dispensed with earlier than expected, I found myself home well ahead of the usual hour, which after last night's late kickoff felt like a rare and welcome gift. Dinner came early too, eaten at a civilised time for once rather than negotiated around whatever the evening had left standing.

The rest of the night went to catching up on football news — reading round the matches I'd missed, the reactions, the inevitable inquests into performances both heroic and hapless. A tournament like this rewards a bit of idle scrolling, piecing together the wider picture from headlines and highlights rather than watching every kick live. A quieter way to stay involved, and rather kinder to the eyelids after the exertions of the night before.